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Are You Afraid to Talk About Your Kinks and Fetishes? You’re Not Alone. Here’s How to Open Up about Your Sexual Desires

You’re lying in bed with your partner and they ask you, “What are your fantasies that we haven’t explored?”, and you instantly freeze up as your face begins to blush. You want so badly to tell them how you would love to play out some really rough or super kinky scenes, but you just aren’t sure if they will be down or maybe you fear it would be a total deal breaker for your relationship, so you shy away from telling them.

Slut-Shaming is So Last Century – Let’s Embrace People Who Own Their Sexuality!

Slut-shaming has been going on for way too long in our society, and it’s time to put an end to it once and for all. Slut has become such a loaded word. It’s often used to shame women for their sexual behavior as if there’s something wrong with enjoying sex, but it has also become a negative slur used towards people in the LBGTQ community.

4 Tips for Loving Your Body and Building Self-Esteem

Everyone has insecurities. It’s one of the unfortunate facts of life that we all have to deal with to some degree. Maybe you feel too fat or skinny, too tall or short, too hairy or not enough hair, too feminine or masculine, your butt is too big or too small, your boobs are too small or not perky enough—maybe you have scars, stretch marks, cellulite, or a physical disability. We promise you are not alone. Insecurities can be especially hard to deal with when it comes to feeling confident in the BDSM world where we typically engage in raw and vulnerable moments with minimal to no clothing on—especially when we are in public or sharing photos online. Here are four steps to get you started towards greater self-love and acceptance when it comes to enjoying the kink scene and feeling confident in going out and enjoying yourself to the fullest. Avoid comparingIf you want to feel more attractive, try not to compare yourself to others. It can be really tempting when you see someone with …

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Guide to Kink Rituals

If you’re interested in practicing BDSM but aren’t sure where to start, or if you are more experienced and looking for fresh ideas, here are some rituals that you can use as inspiration to create your own rituals that are unique to you and your partner(s).

Fetish Friday: Foot Fetish

One of the most well-known, but sometimes misunderstood, fetishes out there is foot fetishism So, what exactly is foot fetishism, and why does it seem to captivate so many people? Whether you’re looking to learn more about this fetish or simply curious as to what a foot fetish really entails, we can help with our weekly Fetish Friday series! What’s so enticing about feet?What’s so enticing about feet? As with other fetishes, foot fetishism can be hard to define, but what’s clear is that it has a whole lot to do with desire. Having a foot fetish is one of the more widely talked about and explored fetishes out there. But for some, it is the very essence of their desires. Some people like a specific look or feature, while others are aroused by certain smells and tastes. They can be bare feet, in shoes, or even some sexy nylons… Many people with a foot fetish will often go to great lengths to worship the right feet and are very willing to give money for …

Don’t Buy a BDSM Starter Kit! Here’s Why…

BDSM may seem intimidating at first, but it’s just like any other activity in life—the more you practice, the better you become! When you’re starting out, you might be tempted to buy one of those BDSM starter kits that are available on the market, but don’t waste your money! Why? Let me explain… A lot of the items in starter kits are not usefulSure, 18 items for less than 20 Euros may seem like a good idea, but we promise you should resist the urge to hit the “buy” button! We found that most of these kits have cheap costume-like items that aren’t useful at all. For example, a lot of starter kits come with floggers and paddles made out of faux leather or other materials that are not ideal for playing with. They are less likely to deliver the right amount of pain or hold up to being used over time. Plus, you may feel like you are saving money in the beginning, but we promise you will want to spend more money on …

5 Tips for Selecting the Perfect Strap-On and Cock

Strap-ons are one of the most common sex toys in the world, and they’re popular with lots of different groups and people across many sexual identities and gender expressions. That said, not all strap-ons are created equal, so if you’re shopping for one (especially if it is your first one), keep these 5 tips in mind to make sure you get one that fits your needs perfectly! Size Does MatterWhen it comes to strap-ons, size does matter. While harnesses come in a wide range of sizes and widths, one thing that may not be obvious is how much flexibility there can be in sizing—but flexibility isn’t just for comfort. For example, a medium may fit fine on your hips but you want something that feels perfect around your waist. There are straps you can swap out so that they’re interchangeable and made to fit your body perfectly—giving you what feels like custom support every time. If you have an interest in strap-on play with anal or vaginal sex, make sure to get a thicker and …

Date Night: Make Your Picnic Kinky!

How do you make date night special? It isn’t easy to come up with new and exciting ways to be romantic with your partner when you’ve been together for years or with a new partner who you want to impress. Even the best ideas can get stale fast. Here are some sexy and simple ideas on how to plan the perfect kinky picnic this summer!