Wax play can be an incredibly sensual, intensely erotic experience—but it can also be dangerous if you don’t know what you’re doing or if you’re doing it with the wrong person. Wax play is best done with a partner… or two… rather than alone, but it is possible to enjoy wax play alone.
When you think of BDSM and you’re likely to imagine people engaging in wild, kinky sex — after all, what else would the acronym stand for? However, many people involved in BDSM find that it has little or nothing to do with sex at all.
Everyone has insecurities. It’s one of the unfortunate facts of life that we all have to deal with to some degree. Maybe you feel too fat or skinny, too tall or short, too hairy or not enough hair, too feminine or masculine, your butt is too big or too small, your boobs are too small or not perky enough—maybe you have scars, stretch marks, cellulite, or a physical disability. We promise you are not alone. Insecurities can be especially hard to deal with when it comes to feeling confident in the BDSM world where we typically engage in raw and vulnerable moments with minimal to no clothing on—especially when we are in public or sharing photos online. Here are four steps to get you started towards greater self-love and acceptance when it comes to enjoying the kink scene and feeling confident in going out and enjoying yourself to the fullest. Avoid comparingIf you want to feel more attractive, try not to compare yourself to others. It can be really tempting when you see someone with …
If you’re interested in practicing BDSM but aren’t sure where to start, or if you are more experienced and looking for fresh ideas, here are some rituals that you can use as inspiration to create your own rituals that are unique to you and your partner(s).
How do you make date night special? It isn’t easy to come up with new and exciting ways to be romantic with your partner when you’ve been together for years or with a new partner who you want to impress. Even the best ideas can get stale fast. Here are some sexy and simple ideas on how to plan the perfect kinky picnic this summer!
Every person has a unique sexual identity. For many people, it can be challenging to figure out what exactly works for them. While there are labels for many kinds of sexual identities, it is not uncommon for people to explore and discover they may identify with more than one or none at all. I’ve always felt discomfort when it comes to the idea of random hookups. I associate that discomfort with being sexually molested at a young age and not wanting to share myself on an intimate level with just anyone. I grew up in the Bible Belt of the south in the States where I secretly made out with girls and pretended to be into boys, but those experiences were few and far between. I followed the expected rules for a “good Christian” family from the south, and I married into a heterosexual relationship where my husband later explained to me he needed to start hormone therapy. For 5 years, I experienced living in the shadows as a queer family, what it was like …
Dom Sub relationships can be very fulfilling, but they can also quickly slide into unhealthy territory where one partner dominates the other in an attempt to control them or make them miserable. If you’re in an unhealthy BDSM relationship, you might find yourself resenting your partner and feeling like you have no power over your life.
